11 Surprising Things Narcissists Can’t Stand (Makes Them Miserable)

11 Surprising Things Narcissists Can’t Stand (Makes Them Miserable)

A narcissist is usually called a narcissistic person who does not see his own shortcomings and is always confident in his infallibility. In psychology, the term “narcissistic personality disorder” or simply “narcissism” is used for this state of mind.

A narcissist is a person who is confident in his own superiority over others. It is quite easy to identify him among friends. He tries to be in the center of attention, and he succeeds since others behave much more modestly. The narcissist himself behaves noisily, speaks loudly, and actively gesticulates. He constantly makes fun of his friends, does not hesitate to gossip about his comrades who are absent at the moment.

A narcissist is a person who surprisingly combines pathological narcissism and low self-confidence. He considers himself handsome, intelligent, and talented, but he constantly needs confirmation of this from others.

So in today’s topic, I’ll take you on an extremely interesting journey regarding the top 11 surprising things that narcissists can’t stand.

On this journey, I would like to begin with the things that get under their skin, leading all the way up to what is ABSOLUTLEY intolerable for them!

Including the number one thing, above all else, that narcissists simply can’t stand!

Right, let’s get going.

Number 1: Not Getting Enough Narcissistic Supply

If a narcissist is running low on supply, which means the attention that allows them to feel like they are really significant and exist, then an annoying emptiness and anxiety begin to bubble up from within them.

And, it is obvious. You’ll notice the glaring difference to when a narcissist is high as a KITE with enough narcissistic supply to feed his or her unsafe and demanding ego, and when he or she is not being fed supply how darkness and moodiness become apparent.

This is the most dangerous zone, where ” the narcissist you know ” can turn on you or must leave the scene, escaping to access much-needed supply out in the world in an attempt to escape the self-annihilating inner feelings of the defective and extremely unsafe Inner Being.

Number 2: People Not Believing They’re an Authority

Narcissists need people to believe that they’re talented, special, and knowledgeable.

They can suffer big time narcissistic injury if someone who has more knowledge and experience than they do, enters a conversation.

They may try to take over and not allow the other person to speak or try to change the subject.

If this is not possible, they will leave. Then, of course, dismantle this person’s credibility afterward.

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Number 3: You Being Happy

This is such a good reminder to the narcissist that you have the ability to access and experience good feelings, whereas he or she feels dead on the inside.
This is an additional insult to the narcissist if your good feelings are to do with something or someone other than the narcissist.

The narcissist really believes that it should be the center of your universe. And, how dare you be happy, when the narcissist can’t be happy.

He will do anything possible to take away your good feelings.

Number 4: You Being Successful

As far as the narcissist is concerned, it is they who should be receiving all the acclaim, accolades and attention.

She or he is pathologically envious and jealous if you receive any recognition.

It is likely that you’ll be punished for taking away some of what narcissists really need to survive – valuable importance.

Number 5: Others Being Are More Attractive Than Them

Narcissists, due to their delusional version of self, think that they’re the most desirable person going.

If someone else turns up commanding attention for their personality and looks, then the narcissist will be very angry and will attempt to demean them as much as possible.

They may purposefully keep their partners away from such a person, Because of their dreadful fears.

Number 6: Having Limits Imposed

Narcissists hate boundaries. They hate being told what to do because they feel this is unbearable.

They like to be completely non-accountable to others. Being like a normal person feels like a terrible horror to them.

Narcissists believe they have to be able to have what they want when they want.. And how dare anyone to tell them any differently!

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Number 7: Being Questioned

The narcissist believes that she or he is beyond reproach.

How dare you question the narcissist in any form or shape? They think that you are supposed to allow them to do whatever they want to do, whenever they want to do, without any question.

If you do question a narcissist, which of course you will, then you will be met with extreme defense mechanisms, rage or abandonment.

A narcissist will not tolerate it, let alone meet you reasonably to resolve things out.

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Number 8: Being Exposed

So, when the narcissist tries to mess with you, you heal yourself from any fear, terror or guilt from persecution and bring the facts clearly and calmly to the table, it makes them incredibly uneasy.

This is especially true when you try to bring other people’s attention to the conversations.

The narcissist can’t mess with you unless you allow him to pull you into the shadows.

Once you stand true and tall and bring things out into the bright light of exposure, a narcissist will fade as much as a vampire does when a big bright light is shone on them.

Number 9: You Refusing to be Hoovered

When you know your value and keep it, no matter what the narcissist tries to do, you never give up and allow yourself to be narcissist supply again – the narcissist will see it as a huge insult.

Why aren’t you caving into the charms anymore?

Why do you think you deserve better or that you can live without them?

All of these questions strike and haunt a narcissist horrifically, and strip them of their own importance.

Number 10: Being Ignored

There is an incredible ego injury that occurs to a narcissist when she or he is ignored.

When you become “anti-fear” as a result of doing the work on your Inner Self to have no emotional inner triggers, then you’re absolutely no longer interested in the games, rubbish and power plays.

You will detach them and refuse to feed them anymore.

Without your fear, anxiety, and heartbreak as the energy to keep powering up and hurting you, the narcissist runs out of fuel.

He or she feels powerless and despises that you cannot be affected anymore. The narcissist will and must take their nastiness and manipulation to somebody else to get a feed.

Number 11: You Thriving

It is the greatest insult to a narcissist that you’ve been able to let go, rebuild your life, move forward and create more happiness and success for yourself than you ever had previously.

The narcissist believes that you should have been affected forever, and completely destroyed and desecrated for life. It makes her or him feel oh really important!

What is really wonderful about this community is that these ancient outcomes (personal unhealable devastation), which unfortunately were often the case for people who have been narcissistically abused, are now firmly a thing of the past.

You can Thrive.

You can prosper.

And you can try to live a better life than ever before.

You can restore your health to incredible radiance and well-being, completely free of all’‘ narcissistic abuse ” symptoms.

You can restore your health to incredible radiation and luxury, completely free from all symptoms of ” narcissistic abuse ”.

This is what I do and I have the greatest happiness in helping you generate in your life.

You can also continue this amazing journey that I and others live every day, so you can know ” how to help a narcissist ”.

So please don’t forget to share this article with people who you know could benefit and know ” how to live with a narcissist”. and ” divorcing a narcissist wife ”.

“I’m done with you because I choose me!”

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